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Twenty Kids And Grief Absorption

December 15th, 2012 · 2 Comments · relationships, spirituality & religion

“Can you imagine Alayna and Jeremiah being gunned down at school?” Thor said last night. We were sitting pressed together on the couch. He was referring to our friends next door, 8 and 10. We had just watched the tape of President Obama’s speech on the Newtown shootings. I

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How To Break The Rules At Christmas

December 2nd, 2012 · 14 Comments · relationships, simplicity

The holidays are full of traditions and rules, some spoken and some unspoken. But change, which we might call rule-breaking, is always an option. While we don’t all celebrate Christmas, most people in the world celebrate some kind of winter holiday (the word holiday was originally holy day). I celebrate Christmas because I’m a liberal Christian, but

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Being Rich, Yet Poor

October 4th, 2012 · 2 Comments · money, relationships

Today’s post is a  follow-up to my fifth most-read post, The Poverty of Hyperindividualism. Incidentally, this autumn marks the fifth anniversary of Diamond-Cut Life! Many thanks to my readers who have posted more than 750 comments on 490 posts, and made my writing a rich, joyful thing. If you subscribe (to your right) you might win the drawing [...]

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Are You A Cultural Creative?

May 21st, 2012 · 4 Comments · global warming and climate change, lifestyle, nature, relationships

If you’ve landed here at Diamond-Cut Life, the chances are good that you’re a cultural creative. I learned not long ago that I am one. This outside-the-box group is almost 25% of the U.S. population, according to extensive research done by Sherry Ruth Anderson and Paul H. Ray. Here are the main characteristics of cultural [...]

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Coming To Believe: Yes To Gay Marriage

May 10th, 2012 · 4 Comments · relationships

I was driving down the Willamette Valley in slanting golden sunlight last night when I heard on NPR that President Obama has come to believe gay people should be able to marry each other. His dialogues over the years with colleagues and friends have helped him arrive at this. Thank you, I thought. I kept [...]

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We Found A Housemate!

October 11th, 2011 · 5 Comments · home & garden, lifestyle, relationships

Just a brief post to note that we finally found a housemate to help us fill up our house and practice community.

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The Best Things In Life: Free, Or Not?

October 4th, 2011 · 2 Comments · community, health & well being, lifestyle, money, relationships

Update on May 7, 2013: Speaking of free, I’m giving away a free copy of my novel, Revelle. 21 Amazon reviews give it an average 4.2 stars. You enter the drawing by subscribing to this blog (to your right). You’ll receive my one weekly post in your email inbox (easy to unsubscribe with a click [...]

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Grief And My Sacred Corner

June 13th, 2011 · 5 Comments · relationships, spirituality & religion

I was walking down 12th street in Salem last week when one of the waves hit me, and out of the blue I was crying. I kept walking, pretending all was well, masking the grief even as I welcomed it. Crying lets me feel closer to my mother, who died on March 21. What triggered [...]

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Who You Calling A Hippie?

June 7th, 2011 · 17 Comments · food & drink, lifestyle, Oregon, relationships, spirituality & religion, transportation, work

Today’s post is on the lighter side.  A reader in Arizona  has suggested that I am a hippie. Or, to be more specific, he wrote I am “definitely much more of a hippie” than he himself is. Hmm. His tone was friendly enough, but I’ve been pondering this hippie business, this label, for a couple [...]

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Making Peace With Not Pleasing Everyone

April 23rd, 2011 · 6 Comments · entertainment, global warming and climate change, relationships

“I am communicating with a certain number of people, and if my music is too dark or in your face for some, or not glossy enough for mass appeal, I’m glad.” That’s a quote from Richard Thompson, one of my favorite musical artists. Substitute the word ‘writing’ for ‘music’, and I feel I could say [...]

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